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Questions for Intimacy
Many couples ask themselves – how can we create a more intimate relationship with
each other? What can we do to feel closer and more in love?
Intimacy is not a mystery, it is the feeling you experience when you and your partner
share yourself with each other. Sharing yourself means that you open up and reveal
things about yourself that are valuable to you. At the same time, you need to listen and
take in what your partner is sharing.
The questions below were designed to help you get to know you partner on a more
intimate level. If you take time to talk about some of these questions you are guaranteed
to learn new things about each other and feel closer and more intimate then before.
Personal questions
1. What is your favorite quote?
2. Who were (/are) your biggest mentors or sources of inspiration?
3. Who dead or alive, real or imaginary would you want to have a dinner with?
Why?
4. Tell the story of your first love.
5. If money was not an issue what would you do?
6. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
7. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?
8. When you were a child, what did you want to be when you grow up?
9. If you could give away one million dollars, who would you give it to?
10. Who of your friends you value most? Why? Who disappointed you? Why?
11. What is something you always wished you had or wished would happen to you?
12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what
would it be?
13. What events were turning points in your life?
